We help others to dilute our egos, if we have the thought i am helping then it is a waste of time for you

We help others to dilute our egos, if we have the thought i am helping then it is a waste of time for you.....For it is their karma to have help it will come from elsewhere... Heros are those that jump to help without thinking 'i am the doer' as that just strokes the ego and strengthens it instead of weakening its hold... I see people thinking they should go down and hug people, at the burned tower, that just make the hugger feel better that is all... If one wants to ge into helping then join a group that helpe all the time and eventually habit will overcome ego...and the helping will continue on by itself weakening the ego. astral entity.....possessing one....T