MUKTAS SAY HUMAN LOVE IS ATTACHMENT----WHAT IS THAT PROCESS?

MUKTAS SAY HUMAN LOVE IS ATTACHMENT ---WHAT IS THAT PROCESS? THE HUMAN PROJECTS ITS DESIRES WISHES AND SAMSKARA TENDENCIES ON TO THE OTHER PERSON...AND THIS IDENTIFICATION CREATES PLEASURE AND ATTACHMENT. THE SAME PROCESS IS DONE WITH CHILDREN AND PETS...IT IS ALL SELF CENTRED...THERE MAY BE SOME REINCARNATION SAMSKARAS BUT THEY JUST ADD IN TO THE MIX...TRUE LOVE IS NOT SELF CENTRED IT IS SACRIFICE...TO EXPLAIN IT IN ONE WAY...AS THE ILLUSORY UNIVERSE IS ALSO SACRIFICE....T